Getting to know someone can take quite a time. However, asking questions has been categorized as the quickest and most effective method to learn more about a person.
Whether you’re conversing with your love prospect through texts or having a date with them, the following simple and deep questions can help you unravel who they are without wasting time:
1. How Do You Spend Your Free Time?
Quality leisure time is one of the ways couples can bond better. If you hope to become an item with your date in the nearest future, you’d want to familiarize yourself with how they spend their time away from work.
Do they love to go partying while you prefer wearing your headphone in the corner of your room alone? Or as a gay, you may ask if they love to use gay chatline numbers to connect with other single gays? This question will help you determine how compatible you are together.
2. What Time of the Year is Your Favorite Season?
Getting to know if they love summer, may help you make a plan to invite them to your next exciting barbeque party. If they love winter, you could organize some fun games say skiing, ice skating, or other recreational activities in the snow.
Overall, whatever season they love would help you plan some fun moments together.
3. What Do You Like Most About Yourself?
This question helps to quickly highlight a positive character about your date. It also helps you to pay attention to this quality in them and appreciate the same.
Since everyone loves to sell themselves, be sure that they’ll be eager to give you an answer to the best of their knowledge.
If they don’t understand this question at once, you can say, “for me, I like that I’m quite forgiving.”
This will also help them to learn new things about you on the spot.
4. What Can You Do Without in a Day?
While you expect them to say, “I can do without my phone in a day,” also expect a reply such as, “I can do without talking to my partner in a day.”
You can’t tell what their answers may be and that’s why you should go ahead and ask. Moreover, it’ll also help you check for compatibility.
5. Do You Do Well Listening or Talking to People
Perhaps you’re looking to date them and you have specific needs you want in your partner, say good listener. The answer you get from them will help you know if they meet your standard or not.
6. Do You Love Having Pets Around You
While you may have a strong affinity with dogs and cats, they may not share the same likeness. It could also be the other way round.
Therefore, to see if you can coexist as a couple in this aspect, you should ask about their love for felines, dogs, or any other pet. You don’t want to be arguing about the cat’s poo, do you?
7. Anything You Want to Know About Me?
This is a tricky one. Although this question sounds like you’re trying to help them get to know you, it also helps you to see if they’re interested in you.
It’s okay to ask this in the middle of your date or when you’re about to call it a day.
8. Are You a Bookworm?
If you’d like to know how intellectually broad they are, inquiries on how much they love to read would do justice to that. You may ask them what books they have read? Which is their favorite? Has any book made an impact on their life?
This question will beget other questions to keep the conversation going.
9. What’s Your Favorite Age?
Some people want to remain young forever or “16 forever”. Chances are your date is one of such people.
You may also want to ask why this age is special to them. Be sure to give a positive comment when they give their reasons.
For instance, if they want to be “16 forever” because they have a phobia about aging, you can say, “your current age suits you regardless.”
If they want to be 5 years old forever because they feel like adulthood is too burdensome, you can say, “I hope this age will be your best year, so far.”
These positive comments will help you leave a great impression on them.
10. What’s the Craziest Adventure You’ve Had?
This is an interesting question you can utilize to spice up your conversation, as you never can tell what their answer may be. They may have engaged in a phone-sex talk or dared to travel the world in 3 months.
A question like this will help you see the crazy part of them.
Use the following questions to know them on a deeper level.
11. What Matters to You Most in Life?
Everyone has something they prioritize in their life. It could be family, health, peace of mind, wealth, or career. By learning this new information, you can learn to see things from their point of view.
Moreover, if their answer doesn’t align with your values, keep in mind that you’re not supposed to judge or argue with them.
You can simply respond with, “wow, I didn’t see that coming. This will help them to be open to answering other questions honestly.
12. What Domestic Work Would You Employ Someone to Do?
Now, here’s how to find out their area of weakness in domestic chores. Making this inquiry can help you know how you complement each other in home chores.
If you’re strong in their weakness, it could help you win a spot in their heart. So this is a good time to sell yourself to your date or love interest. However, don’t overdo it.
13. What Sort of Help Do You Love to Render?
If you’re looking to date a person, this is a must-ask question you shouldn’t shy away from.
Their response can be different. However, expect answers such as financial assistance, friendliness, moral support, advice, and volunteer services. Just keep in mind that all types of assistance are crucial in helping others feel better.
14. Do You See Yourself Relocating to Another Country
Questions about relocation are an eye-opener for people who’d love to have a relationship. This is because not everyone can maintain a long-distance relationship. Hence it’s best to know from the onset if they have relocation plans and see if you can work around it.
15. What Has Life Taught You So Far?
Do you want to learn something personal about your date or even grab a lesson or two from meeting them? This is a perfect question to achieve these aims.
Moreover, by opening up about an experience that helped you learn a valuable lesson, you can also encourage them to do the same with you.
You can ask this question even more politely by saying, “if you don’t mind sharing, what has life taught you so far.”
16. Can You Recall Your Best Birth Anniversary So Far?
Everyone has a unique way they love to celebrate their birthday. Therefore, asking them about their best birthday celebration would let you in on what they appreciate the most when marking their new age.
This would not only give you an idea of how to make them happy in the future during an occasion like this but how to surpass their expectation.
So keep this question on your top list.
Finally, remember to also answer these questions so it doesn’t appear like they’re on an interview with you. Additionally, do well to maintain a relaxed atmosphere as you get to know them better.
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