Every life that’s lived is so unique to the person, so it makes sense that when the end of life comes, each funeral should be deeply personal. However, thats often not the case- and you might be worried about your loved one ending up with a ‘cookie cutter’ funeral, when one size most definitely does not fit all. If your loved one has died without making funeral plans, it can be overwhelming to deal with, especially when you’re most likely not in your best state of mind due to dealing with grief. But hopefully these tips can give you ideas so you can remember them in the best possible way.
Choosing a Meaningful Location
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Personalising a funeral is a way to celebrate the life of a loved one in a meaningful and special way. While traditional funerals have been around for a long time, many people today prefer a service that reflects the personality, interests, and values of the person who has passed away. When planning a funeral, adding personal touches can help honor their memory and bring comfort to those who attend/ One way to personalise a funeral is by choosing a location that holds special meaning. Many funerals are held in churches or funeral homes, but you can also consider other places that may be important to the person who passed away. It could be a garden, a beach, or even a family home.
Tailoring the Service to Reflect Their Life
Another aspect to think about is the type of service you want to have. Some people prefer a traditional religious service, while others might choose something more relaxed and informal. Think about the headstone too, custom headstones and memorials can again give a more personal touch rather than something generic.
Using Music
Music can play a big part in making a funeral feel personal. Instead of the usual funeral hymns or classical music, you could choose songs that were special to the person who has passed away. It could be their favorite band, a song from their wedding, or something they always sang around the house. Playing music that means something to them can evoke memories and bring comfort to those who are grieving.
Personalising with Decorations and Mementos
The way the funeral space is decorated can also help make the service feel more personal. Flowers are often used at funerals, but you could choose flowers that had special meaning to the person who passed. Maybe they loved roses, sunflowers, or even a type of plant from their garden. You could also include photos or items that remind people of their hobbies or passions. If they were a painter, you could display some of their artwork. If they loved sports, you could have items that reflect their favorite team.
Making the Eulogy Personal
The words that are spoken during the service can also have a personal touch. Some people choose to have a close family member or friend deliver the eulogy rather than the registrar. The eulogy should include stories, memories and moments that highlight who the person was in life. This can be a time to share what made them unique and the impact they had on the people around them.
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