Do you and your partner find it difficult to keep your sex life intimate and interesting despite being together for so long? It can become really boring and tiring to keep having sex in the same place over and over again, so we’ve put together a list of fun new places to have sex so that you and your partner can break out of that rut of having mundane bedroom sex. Give these new places a shot and try to find the right balance between experimenting and playing it safe. From sex toys, exploring kinks, role-playing, Elm and Rye libido sexual enhancement supplements, and much more, there’s a world of wonders out there for you to explore and reignite that spark between you and your partner, and having sex in new places is one of the best places to begin a newfound journey of sexual exploration.
Keep in mind that these are suggestions that we put together with a lot of caution – make sure you are not risking your safety by checking for the legal aspects of your region and ensuring the health and safety of the area of your choice is up to the mark. Nothing kills the vibe quicker than an unhygienic place, and it really won’t help set the mood at all if you and your partner are not comfortable. Put your health, safety, and comfort above everything else and let the pleasure follow suit.
The Shower
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Take things to the next level with your partner by making it (literally) hot and steamy! Nothing screams “FUN” like getting in the shower and letting a hot stream of water steam up the entire bathroom. In the midst of all of that steam, reach for your partner and try multiple new ways of enjoying sex in the comfort of your home but still being able to step outside the bedroom and take it somewhere else. Lather yourselves up and get all the good scents flowing as you reach for loofahs, exfoliants, and anything else within reach to truly experience the hot and steamy nature of shower sex!
To really take things to the next level, feel free to incorporate waterproof sex toys into your shower sex with your partner – waterproof vibrators, dildos, and so much more are at your disposal for you to relish and enjoy sex in the shower.
A Window
This one comes with a bit of a warning:
- Make sure you are not within direct view and do not cause offense to those around you.
- Check the area for the elderly and kids, and ensure that your local police district and laws do not put you at risk for experimenting with a bit of exhibitionism and voyeurism.
- Really tune in to your and your partner’s kinks and test the waters of how far you can take your imagination.
It can get more fun if you and your partner are non-monogamous and introduce a third or even fourth person who enjoys voyeurism – the art of looking – or exhibitionism – the art of showing – and really get the ball rolling when you get there.
Your Car!
Much like the previous suggestion, this one will ask you to be careful and cautious in your endeavor. Car sex can be exhilarating, it can make you feel young again, and it can really help reignite the spark in your relationship, especially if you and your partner have been playing it safe for a while.
Take your car to a safe spot – perhaps something like a public park, a hiking trail, or even in a parking lot – and let your imagination run wild. Feel like you’re a teenager again, and use the adrenaline to elevate your excitement and heighten the sense of anticipation in a car with your partner. You can choose whichever seat feels most comfortable for you and even take it a step further by literally taking the backseat and letting your partner get a mini workout.
Public Toilets
It goes without saying that hygiene should be your number 1 priority when you choose a place to experiment with sexual activities. Unclean and unhygienic places aren’t just a turn-off; they can also sometimes be hazardous and dangerous for your health. Especially when bodily fluids are concerned, you should be keeping health and safety at the top of your list when shortlisting places to have sex with your partner outside of the bedroom.
In case you do end up finding a place that is clean, neat, and safe for you and your partner to indulge in sexual activities there, the next thing to look out for is some sense of privacy and alone-ness that you can find. You obviously would not want a stranger tapping away at the door – tempting as it may sound – or worse, someone accidentally walking in on you two because the locks are busted, so make sure you are able to maintain some sense of privacy and safety in there. After this checklist, you and your partner are free to explore the wonders of sex in a public bathroom – make it hot by quickening the process, and let the adrenaline allow your senses to reach new heights. The thrill of it all sounds irresistible, so give it a shot when you’re ready – you won’t be disappointed!
Rent a Room
If safety and comfort are your priorities and you really don’t want to run into the risks of getting arrested or causing offense, the next best option for you and your partner might be to rent a room anywhere in the city/country! If hotel rooms are too heavy on the pocket, consider BnBs or even ask a friend if you can use a room in their house because, trust us, nothing is more fun than getting to know your partner’s body in a new place.
Go out, and turn this into a mini vacation – try the street food, plan a date night, and really find the time to get away and get lost in each other’s presence to make the most of this room you’re renting.
Quickies at Events
This is an all-time classic for a lot of our readers and fans – quickies at events like your best friend’s wedding, or a bridal or baby shower, or even a work or college event, can be exciting and really interesting to break the cycle of mundane sex in the bedroom. Take the night to prepare, get dressed, and put on your fanciest clothes that allow you to feel as good about yourself as possible!
It might be a little rushed, but take our word for it, there is no lack of thrill and enthusiasm once you get started – this is really an intense, pleasurable experience for both of you to step outside your bedroom and be able to experiment in fun new places and introduce some new dimensions to your sex life.
And finally, if you can’t break out of the mundane bedroom sex routine, try to have a conversation with your partner about what works for you and what doesn’t, and once communication is sorted, you two are good to go! If you or your partner find it difficult or painful to have sex, please consult a specialist and professional – a doctor or therapist would be an excellent place to start, and talk to your friends and family about it to get the required help you need!
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